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Thursday, August 19, 2010

12 Nights of Passion by Gabrielle Moore



12 Nights Of Sex Games By Gabrielle Moore
Sex games can be as easy or as complicated as you want them to be. There are those where you just whip out a sex game board and be done with it in a few minutes – nothing wrong with that! – but there are also those that take some time in its execution.
Your sex life should never be a routine. That’s why it’s important to engage in BOTH simple and more complex sex games. One benefit of the latter is that the longer you delay actual lovemaking, the hotter you guys are by that time!
12 Nights of Passion
This sex game is designed for super extended foreplay. The goal is to reach the 12th night without having intercourse, making the 12th night one of intense passion. Here’s a sample outline you can use.
Beware: before you DO have intercourse, you must be ready to pay up for all the expectancy that you created! To know how to give her the best orgasms of her life, go to: Gabrielle’s Awesome Stuff
1st night – Have a romantic dinner either at home or at a fancy restaurant. While dining, play footsie and/or indulge in a little bit of groping underneath the table.
2nd night – Sprinkle red roses in bed, light some candles and play some soft music, and then just cuddle each other till you sleep.
3rd night – Play strip poker and once all your or your partner’s clothes are off, engage in a little dry rubbing, but that’s it! Don’t engage in having sex.
4th night – Play “silent dirty words”. Get a pen and blank sheet of paper each. Write a dirty word or phrase on the piece of paper, tear it off and hand it to your lover. Your lover reads it and then drops it in a bowl. Now it’s her turn to write another dirty word or phrase and hand it off to you. Do not talk in between this exercise. Just write, show the words and that’s it. The ‘loser’ is the one who runs out of dirty words first. (You will notice that at the end of this exercise, you guys have just collected a bowl of dirty phrases you can use for a future game!) After the game has ended, laugh it off, have a bowl of ice cream or something and go to bed.
5th night – Play sexy twister. Take out the twister mat or board and play a traditional game of twister… naked.
6th night – It’s the sixth day, give yourselves a little bit of reprieve by engaging in some hot oral sex. You can bring each other to a climax but do NOT engage in intercourse.
IMPORTANT: While engaging in oral sex, make sure to avoid the most common mistakes. Learn the proper techniques to satisfy your lover! Go to: Gabrielle’s Awesome Stuff
7th night – “Accidentally” leave out some adult-rated reading material for your lover to see and glance over. Make sure the erotica is hot enough to really bring about lust in your partner. When she asks you about it, feign innocence!
8th night – Give each other a sexual massage. Be naughty and daring but do not engage in lovemaking. You can engage in oral pleasure but not to the point of bringing on a climax.
9th night – Give your partner a call at an odd hour of the day, say 2 PM or whenever she least expects it, and engage in some phone sex. Don’t go too far; just get each other excited. After that, say you probably dialed the wrong number and hang up, or change your voice to ‘normal’ and simply say “love you honey, see you tonight for dinner” and then hang up.
10th night – Go online together tonight and preview a few adult-rated literotica.
11th night – Send naughty messages to your lover all throughout the day! Send a sex joke via SMS, email a long and dirty joke, and others. By the time you see each other tonight, pretend like nothing happened!
12th night – Shoot a short erotic video of yourself. Don’t go all the way. Instead, at the end of the video, look into the camera and tell your lover where you should meet tonight. It can be a hotel room, motel room or your own bedroom but fancily dressed up. The minute your lover enters the location you indicated on the video, do not engage in foreplay whatsoever! After all these days, you’re pent up passions will be enough for one of the hottest moments of your life!
The 12 Nights of Passion is designed to bring about so many things in your relationship.
It’s a sex game of creativity and control. But its real goal is to make each day one of heightened sexual pleasure and longing for each other. Can you imagine how you guys will come together by the 12th night after all that waiting and sexual highs and lows?!? Give this extended sex game a try and be sure to do it more than once a year!
To learn a lot more about games and tips to satisfy your lover in bed, go to Gabrielle’s Awesome Stuff

Sunday, August 8, 2010

let's take charge

Adrienne recommended me this book. She picked it up from the Melbourne airport and felt strongly that I should read it. 


I think every woman should read this.


Although there have been mix reviews; big words like "narcissistic" or "fetish", it would be worth your time.


I find it thought provoking and encouraging self-indulgence many women fear.


Women are not all about giving.


We take, we give and then we grow.


Mind you, it is not a book tailored for mid age women to go goo-ga-ga cos they empower you. 


Adrienne is just 19, whatever hit her?


Anyway, just a small excerpt we picked up from the net. You decide. you take charge. RIght?


the newyorker :


At the age of thirty-one, Gilbert moved with her husband to the suburbs of New York and began trying to get pregnant, only to realize that she wanted neither a child nor a husband. Three years later, after a protracted divorce, she embarked on a yearlong trip of recovery, with three main stops: Rome, for pleasure (mostly gustatory, with a special emphasis on gelato); an ashram outside of Mumbai, for spiritual searching; and Bali, for “balancing.” These destinations are all on the beaten track, but Gilbert’s exuberance and her self-deprecating humor enliven the proceedings: recalling the first time she attempted to speak directly to God, she says, “It was all I could do to stop myself from saying, ‘I’ve always been a big fan of your work.’"

Thursday, August 5, 2010

getting acquainted

It was unusually hot for a Wednesday night in the city.


I didn't mean the 2 stunning "girls" sitting directly opposite us at the veranda of the boisterous Espressamente of the largest shopping mall in the golden triangle.


The one spotting a Farah Fawcet blondish hairstyle was so vain and totally enjoying the drooling looks from us and fellow passersby; regardless of gender. She's HOT but I really meant the ugly side of our year round summer bliss, the humidity!


The four of us were seated quite comfortably after several hours of retail therapy..... all eager for a place to rest our tired limbs and quench our thirst.


As yours truly is no fan of anything that consists caffeine, "a pick-me-up" booster made from honey, ginger and lemon, handsomely packaged in a petite orange bottle was my choice. Both the guys had their regular espresso shots, Illy is famed for making well whereas, Joanne decided on a mocha.


After regular accordance of niceties, exchanging hellos......we conversed mostly on a Leica M3. That camera was brought out to town by Azrul to entice enthusiasts like us. Lucky him, flaunting around something a friend had loaned him for a month as contra to some unsettled dues. You know how guys traded stuffs amongst themselves. It truly is so handsome, Joanne could not resist exploring every contour and buttons.


Putting down the Leica; presumably already done with her part of admiration, Joanne suddenly whispered to me, .....


" How can I have been so stupid all these while?"


I knew what she was referring to, and gave her my million dollar smile.


Our acquaintance dated back a year ago. We occasionally chatted online and shared similar interests in fashion and photography. After finishing her studies in Melbourne, Joanne stayed on and got her permanent residence in Australia.


Since she was making her yearly pilgrimage home; she scheduled a layover in Kuala Lumpur to meet me in person and celebrate her birthday with a few close friends.


I offered her a XIXILI Perfect Fit session and a set of her choice lingerie for her birthday. Out of courtesy, she obliged this shopping date with us but I could sense her disinterest and discomfort.


It was the longest walk from the valet drop off zone on the ground floor to the fourth floor where XIXILI is. Throughout, she was impressing me with the details of her budoir carrying a large inventory of brands like Lejaby, Elle Macpherson, VS etc.


I told her just spend 10 minutes with my professional fitter. Then we shall just grab the peach Lejaby bra she had an eye for. She can have whatever she wanted, those French lingerie was on offer here and we have exactly the size she regularly buys.


She winked in agreement and allowed Agnes, one of our professional fitters on duty that day to assist her on choosing a couple of brassieres that fancied her.


I waited.


10 minutes have passed. Agnes was walking in and out of the fitting room.


I waited.


Another 30 minutes have passed. Agnes was still walking in and out of the fitting room.


I waited.


55 minutes have passed. Agnes came out of the fitting room, both her arms stringing with brassieres.


Checked her stock, exchanged a few brassieres and looked for more suitable alternatives. Hurriedly back into the fitting room where Joanne was.


It was a pleasant wait for me outside in the boutique's  lobby lounge because I know Joanne has been uplifted on the importance of how a PERFECT FIT bra flatters her body profile.


Exactly after an hour, Joanne came out in a similar posture like Agnes.10 brassieres onto each of her arms. Gave me a very cheeky smile and asked if she could buy all those that she has been stringed on her.


For a start, Joanne actually only needed a few PERFECT FIT bras. Nothing could stop her though. I did not. She ended buying 12 sets that will last her till her next trip back to Malaysia.


Helped her to organise the selection to cater to all her daily and special occasion needs.


She needn't feel stupid for wearing a wrong sized bra for a long time to come.


I cheekily asked if I should wrap up the Lejaby and she burst out laughing to exclaimed a big NO!

Crescensia Bouquet, launched this summer.


If only more people get a chance to be acquainted with XIXILI.

Friday, July 23, 2010

Love Who You Are


I cannot resist, but post this entry from Word of Wellness.
Importance of Loving Yourself
“You talk to yourself all day.  If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all.” Therefore, repeat positive thoughts towards whatever you are feeling.  Some examples include:
  1. I am a strong person.
  2. I look great.
  3. I value my good health.
  4. I am successful at accomplishing my goals. 

When thinking and talking to yourself, it is important to have positive thoughts and constantly motivate yourself.  While the body is built for health, the mind is very powerful.  Therefore, if you tell yourself you are strong and beautiful, you will feel better as a person. When you have love for yourself and have self-acceptance, you grow with joy.
“Actively love yourself.”
Understand that mistakes happen.  Build experience from them rather than slapping yourself in the face.  Practice forgiving yourself and constantly use forgiveness in self talk.  You can’t always stop negative things from happening in life, but you can control your response to them.
There are many keys to self acceptance:
  • Think of unique things that set you apart from other people and draw good things from them.
  • Pick a person that you look up to and find reasons why you look up to them.
  • Take responsibility of your actions.
  • Achieve self control and practice saying “no” in certain situations. 
  • Do something nice for another person. Whenever you do or say anything that causes another person to like himself more, you find yourself liking yourself more as well.
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Wednesday, July 21, 2010

hello! it is a new day!

how have you been doing so far?
listened to your favourite song?
watched inception?
going for a date soon?